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Senin, 03 Desember 2012

Are u Being MOBBED? Bullying at the Workplace?

Mobbing in the context of human beings means bullying of an individual by a group in any context, such as a family, school, workplace, neighbourhood, or community. When it occurs as emotional abuse in the workplace, such as "ganging up" by co-workers, subordinates or superiors, to force someone out of the workplace through backstabbing you by the rumour , innuendo, intimidation, humiliation, discrediting, and isolation, it is also referred to as malicious, nonsexual, nonracial, general harassment
Mobbing in the workplace or Workplace bullying, like childhood bullying, is the tendency of individuals or groups to use persistent aggressive or unreasonable behavior against a co-worker or subordinate. Workplace bullying can include such tactics as verbal, nonverbal, psychological, physical abuse and humiliation. This type of aggression is particularly difficult because, unlike the typical forms of school bullying, workplace bullies often operate within the established rules and policies of their organization and their society. Bullying in the workplace is in the majority of cases reported as having been perpetrated by management and takes a wide variety of forms. Bullying can be covert or overt but it's always bad.

According to Bassman, common abusive workplace behaviours are:
  1. Disrespecting and devaluing the individual, often through disrespectful and devaluing language or verbal abuse
  2. Overwork and devaluation of personal life (particularly salaried workers who are not compensated)
  3. Harassment through micromanagement of tasks and time
  4. Overevaluation and manipulating information (for example concentration on negative characteristics and failures, setting up subordinate for failure).
  5. Managing by threat and intimidation
  6. Stealing credit and taking unfair advantage
  7. Preventing access to opportunities
  8. Downgrading an employee's capabilities to justify downsizing
  9. Impulsive destructive behaviour
According to Hoel and Cooper, common abusive workplace behaviours are:
  1. Having your opinions and views ignored
  2. Withholding information which affects your performance
  3. Being exposed to an unmanageable workload
  4. Being given tasks with unreasonable or impossible targets or deadlines
  5. Being ordered to do work below competence
  6. Being ignored or facing hostility when you approach
  7. Being humiliated or ridiculed in connection with your work
  8. Excessive monitoring of a person's work (see micromanagement)
  9. Spreading gossip
  10. Having insulting or offensive remarks made about your person (i.e. habits and background), your attitudes or your private life
  11. Having key areas of responsibility removed or replaced with more trivial or unpleasant tasks


Feeling the same situation with one of them maybe?

Are u being mobbed???

Asked yourself


 and you dont have any way to handle it 
or even getting worst everyday

I'm telling you,


People Who being mobbed at office will feel horrible, they losses their confident and self esteem. feeling not so important again, losing pride and integrity or even causes lost of identity.
 Day by day in that kind situation, emotional everyday, depressed, it is particulary sign of getting insane

Insanity OR Madness definitely NOT GOOD FOR OUR BODY AND MIND

so step up!

coz if everyminutes in that nuts situation many possibility
you'll become one of them! the people who usually bullying u

“Watch your thoughts; Watch your words;  Watch your actions;  Watch your habits; Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.”

Workplace should be the perfect place for growing, 

A Place for being a Better Person!  

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Minggu, 02 Desember 2012

Eye Catchy Bags n' Clutches of Olympia Le - Tan


No, They're NOT!! 
These are Catchy Bags and Clutches By Olympia Le-Tan
Really sick and Brilliant isn't it? :))
 While Chanel, Hermes and Celine are all pretty amazing, we like to mix it up a bit and what better way than with these one of a kind Olympia Le -Tan book-clutches.
This self-taught fashion designer studied and learned with the classics, starting her career at the Chanel Studio with Karl Lagerfeld to working with Balmain and within one year collaborating with A.P.C. and J.M. Weston. 

Not a bad resume to have!  Le -Tan incorporated her love of books and her edgy Parisian style into this uniquely hand crafted collection of bags and clutches. These bags have already been seen on the likes of fashions’ elite all over Europe and is catching up here in the states. The collection includes some literally classics such as Lolita, Moby Dick, Catcher in the Rye, The Great Gatsby and if that doesn’t entice you, you can always wear the “ultimate chill pill”.

 It's apear Everywhere!!! 
From street, a Fashion Week 
into Red Carpet 


From a regular teenager into many famous people!


Everybody wear it! Everybody love it! 
I love it too ^^

Recently when Hollywood star Natalie Portman and French super star Clemence Poesy attended different releases with the same style of handbags by coincidence,The French brand Olympia Le-Tan suddenly came into focus.

 People especially young ladies are so crazy about the handbag. Then how does this new and childish design idea come to the public?
The designer of this series of handbag is Olympia Le-Tan who once worked in Louis Vuitton, Balenciaga, YS and other big bag-design companies. Finally, she chose handbag design as her main career and was popularized by her first handbag design of You can‘t judge a book by its cover in September of 2009. Since then, the handbags of Olympia Le-Tan frequently showed on many famous magazines and the famous fashion journal ELLE especially promoted bags of this brand. You should know then artistic young men were proud of having a handbag of this brand.
Olympia Le-Tan makes use of canvas and embroidery to replicate the book cover so as to render nostalgic feeling and some paterns are even in the French humor. 

How to matching clothes at the appearance of  this bag?
In a word, be simple if you can. But the principle is you should possibly choose elegant collocation of dress, or small formal attire dress, or casual clothing of simple color. You can be as creative as you can, so your intellectual temperament can get incisively and vividly expressed, naturally to be matched with so called “bag” grace. In turn, one of the best characteristics is that you can choose what kind of books you want, that is, it can be customerized. But I don’t mean that you can choose any book with any content. What I really mean is the book is what you have read or is reading. Otherwise if someone refers to it or ask you the reason you choose that, you won’t be embarrassed then. In different occasions, choose the right one to represent you is the most important.

Really Interesting right??

Mom, Can I get one please??? @_@

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Kamis, 26 Juli 2012

10 things about smile

1. Smiling Makes Us Attractive
We are drawn to people who smile. There is an attraction factor. We want to know a smiling person and figure out what is so good. Frowns, scowls and grimaces all push people away — but a smile draws them in.

2. Smiling Changes Our Mood
Next time you are feeling down, try putting on a smile. There’s a good chance you mood will change for the better. Smiling can trick the body into helping you change your mood.

3. Smiling Is Contagious
When someone is smiling they lighten up the room, change the moods of others, and make things happier. A smiling person brings happiness with them. Smile lots and you will draw people to you.

4. Smiling Relieves Stress
Stress can really show up in our faces. Smiling helps to prevent us from looking tired, worn down, and overwhelmed. When you are stressed, take time to put on a smile. The stress should be reduced and you’ll be better able to take action.

5. Smiling Boosts Your Immune System
Smiling helps the immune system to work better. When you smile, immune function improves possibly because you are more relaxed. Prevent the flu and colds by smiling.
6. Smiling Lowers Your Blood Pressure
When you smile, there is a measurable reduction in your blood pressure. Give it a try if you have a blood pressure monitor at home. Sit for a few minutes, take a reading. Then smile for a minute and take another reading while still smiling. Do you notice a difference?

7. Smiling Releases Endorphins, Natural Pain Killers and Serotonin
Studies have shown that smiling releases endorphins, natural pain killers, and serotonin. Together these three make us feel good. Smiling is a natural drug.

8. Smiling Lifts the Face and Makes You Look Younger
The muscles we use to smile lift the face, making a person appear younger. Don’t go for a face lift, just try smiling your way through the day — you’ll look younger and feel better.

9. Smiling Makes You Seem Successful
Smiling people appear more confident, are more likely to be promoted, and more likely to be approached. Put on a smile at meetings and appointments and people will react to you differently.

10. Smiling Helps You Stay Positive
Try this test: Smile. Now try to think of something negative without losing the smile. It’s hard. When we smile our body is sending the rest of us a message that “Life is Good!” Stay away from depression, stress and worry by smiling

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Hijab Tutorial By Moshaict

Heloooww.. Para Hijabers Cantik..

Alhamdulilah ketemu lagi di bulan Ramadhan. Semoga kita semua mendapatkan keberkahan dariNya. Amin
This time I wanna share a little tips how to wear a Nice Hijab,. Pastinya banyak undangan buka bersama dengan para Hijab sisters lainnya.. So..here it is some pictures, I wish it can be Helpfull ^_^ -
Happy Ramadhan Happily Sisters..

Nice and Easy kan???

Selamat Mencobaa :)
Source : Moshaict

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